It’s not the critic that counts…..or is it?
You know those good, bad, and ugly critics that take up space in your head?
It is ultimately you (not the critics), in the arena, doing your best day by day, with grit, sweat, and tears to persevere on your craft.
When you step into the spotlight, whether it’s through writing and publishing a book, delivering a speech, posting a video, and engaging on social media about your work, you’re answering a call to share your voice and ideas with the world. As in my case, to share stories and history that lights the way for others.
It’s a courageous act of vulnerability, a leap of faith into the unknown, and with it comes the inevitable chorus of voices: the critics, the good, the bad, and the ugly.
But, as all leaders and creators know, critics, in their various forms, come with the territory of putting oneself in the arena.
Critics can be the discerning voices that help you refine your craft. But the harsh critics who seem to relish tearing down your efforts with their keyboard- or the indifferent observers – ultimately offer little substance.
So, do critics count? In a way, yes. Their feedback, whether positive or negative, can provide valuable insights into how your work is perceived. And, why you must carry on.
Positive feedback allows you to see blind spots, refine your message, and hone your skills. Constructive criticism, delivered with kindness to help you improve, can be invaluable in your growth as a leader and creator.
In my early days of blogging, devotion writing for my church, and later, the making of Old Breed General, I was often nervous about hitting publish.
I am thankful I did press publish. And for constructive criticism from my family and friend’s, my co-author, editors, and several Marines on military facts and jargon.
However, not all criticism is created equal. There’s the bad and the ugly critics—the kind of criticism steeped in negativity, devoid of substance, and often fueled by personal biases or misinformation. This type of criticism can be hurtful, paralyzing, and ultimately unhelpful. Sometimes straddling the line of downright slander.
It’s important to discern between constructive feedback and negativity and not let the latter derail your creative journey.
Thankfully, I have learned the difference over the years – and it’s been reinforced since Old Breed General was published two years ago. Ultimately, while it’s natural to feel a twinge of discomfort or frustration in the face of criticism, the good, the bad, and the ugly, it’s important to remember that it’s all part of the process.
So folks, let us embrace the constructive feedback, learn from it, and use it to fuel our growth.
And as for the rest—the barbs, the arrows, the venomous words – let them fly by you, so you can stay laser-focused on your mission and the meaningful impact you’re making in the world.
Onward.
